I got asked earlier today what looked for most in a man and my answer was immediate.
So, that said, here’s what got me pondering:
Any time I make a comment to that effect, I get a few different but overwhelmingly similar responses.
A) Geek Gals agree and either tell me they are seeking or currently have an intelligent man they love and adore.
B) Geek Guys reply that they either have a woman who feels the same or, and here’s what got me thinking, that they can’t seem to meet a woman who feels the same way.
How is it that there are that many Geek women out there who want intelligent men, but the Geek men can’t seem to find them.
Where are the Geek Men looking? Where are the Geek girls hanging out?
Do you think you’re looking in the right places in order to meet someone who would dig you just as you are you doing the dating equivalent of looking for a fresh water fish in the ocean? (I know, bad pun. But you know what they say…plenty of fi–oh, whatever.)
And be honest ;-)
**Sense of humor runs a close second, but I generally find that intelligence and a sense of humor go hand in hand.